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Daily Dilemma: My High School Bully Is In My Small Group

Dear Rebecca and Burns,

My husband and I go to a very large church and joined a small group a while ago. One of the members is a woman who was really awful to me in High School. She is very sweet now, but has never addressed how she treated me. I thought I would be able to let it go–it’s been over 20 years–but I’m actually starting to think about it more and more. I want to leave the small group but my husband loves it. It took me a long time to get him to join one and I don’t want to rock the boat.

What should I do?

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